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Once in a while I come into this cycle where I am overwhelmed by lots of stuff coming from my work , personal life, and all the things in between. I’ve been busy practically the last four months – I mean, uber busy.
Every time I have to deal with this swamp, the first thing that I try to do is create the balance I need.
Here are some tips to help you create some balance that pave way for efficiency and productivity:
Eliminate
Unfortunately, when things start to shake and you’re losing some control over your stuff, it is quite inevitable that you throw some baggage out the window.
Now we’re talking about sacrificing some commitments. The best way to do this is list all your tasks and activities according to the level of priority you “feel” they’re worth.
Don’t Rationalize
If you noticed above, I said that you sort priorities according to what they are worth to you. Let your guts work in deciding. Over-rationalizing things can stress you up.
At this situations you can almost let common sense do its work. The less you think, the easier it becomes for you to handle the elimination part.
Audit Your Personal Activities
Examine how you spend your time on personal activities. Before even thinking about your priorities, let go of unimportant things first. Eliminate unimportant stuff. If you think that updating your Facebook profile a couple of times a day is important to you, chances are you still need to grow up.
Categorize Tasks
Limit the number of your categories to the least number. Two or three are more than enough for most people.The reason for this is to simplify all the processing that you need to do to accomplish your objectives. Make a list of your tasks under each category. Find ways to handle manage your lists more effectively.
I have 3 categories currently – Home/Family, Work, and School (I am on a 6-month training). I don’t have a general priorities for all my categories. I arrange my priorities from within their respective categories.
Be Wise With Time
Time is gold. It is foolish to waste it. There is no one-size-fits-all technique when it comes to time management. Like I said many times before, don’t throw much effort on time management. Let time worry itself.
Focus on doing your tasks and aim for momentum. Time is irrelevant when you are really into doing something. Work one thing at a time. If keeping time is really essential in what you are doing, have some flexibility. You cannot just stop in the middle of your momentum.
It’s Never A Matter Of Work Vs Family
If you know how to deal with things the way they should be handled, you’ll realize that efficiency and productivity is not a matter of choosing between work and family/personal.
One should complement the other. If you are dealing with your priorities in a way that puts both ends in opposing current, you’re doing it wrong.
These are some of the things to consider when you’re overwhelmed with priorities from all sides.
How do you handle your situation?
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It’s all about time-management. No matter how busy we are, we must take time to ourselves and to our family. I really agree to you ” Be Wise With Time” because time is gold.
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Mamie,
Like I said in the past, productivity is not a matter of time-management, but task-management. David Allen’s GTD teaches you that. We do not have control over time. Time will just go and on and on without us controlling it. Make priorities and improve workflow.
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Hi Marlon , greetings from Australia, being overworked and trying to maintain a social life is extremely challenging .I have been experimenting with a virtual PA , which so far has been a real time saver . I wonder if any of the other readers of productivitybits has had experiences using these virtual options to create more efficiencty and less stress?
Amy
Amy,
Delegation is one way of getting off loads from your shoulders. Working with an outsourced Virtual Assistant can definitely help. I recommend it for those who might be needing it.
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It’s all about time-management indeed. I’ve learned that when you’re swamped, avoid multi-tasking. It is much better to pour all your attention and concentration on one task at a time so you can do it efficiently. It’s better than to multi-task and finish three tasks in one go but with low quality results.
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Siti,
Multi-tasking only works at certain time but not all the time. Focusing on one task per time-allotment is better. You can use both techniques. It depends on the situation.
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Been there, done that. I think what both I and other people find frustrating is that at some point, the 2-minute-rule doesn’t even work. If I have 500 messages in my “reply if I can” folder (at least they’re out of my inbox), that’s still an entire week’s worth of work, doing nothing else. That’s simply not going to happen. So that means someone’s not going to get a reply, or someone’s not going to get that one link I told them I’d send them, or whatever. And not everyone is very forgiving about that.
Any tips for how you tactfully exit those commitments you eliminate?
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Scott,
Thanks for the comment.
I am still looking for effective ways to handle “eliminated commitments”. But before we get to that, Leo at Zen Habits has a good post about “How To Say ‘No’”. Maybe, that’s a good start. Here’s the link: http://zenhabits.net/say-no/
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One thing I’ve found to be a big time-saver is avoiding one-on-one face-to-face meetings. Whenever I meet new people and they want to get together in person, over coffee or lunch or whatever, I tell them that my schedule doesn’t really allow casual meetings, but I’d love to talk on the phone or communicate via email, and if we get to the point that we have some specific items to discuss in more depth, I’d be happy to meet at that time. Most people accept that pretty well. Some pursue it, others don’t. I still end up getting some face time with a few people, but I’m not spending a couple of hours every day on small talk with just one person.
Scott,
That’s a great tip! If you want to expound that a little bit further and put it on paper, I’d love to post that as a guest post. Of course you will get credit and links.
Let me know.
:-)
Very well said.. it is really hard to combine those two priorities in life, “Be Wise With Time” is the best tip that you gave…
We cannot control time. Time will continue to elapse for all we care. Control your priorities instead.
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All good points and especially the last one. I never got the work/life balance thing as to me..there is only balance.
Thanks for sharing, I enjoy reading your posts :)
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You always have to strike a balance – work-life balance is essential to well-being. Choose family!
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Hey Marlon,
I’m with you man. We have to prioritize in order of importance. Family first and everything else in order.
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Family is one big reason that we should list down all our priorities so we know where we are at any given moment. If family is not one of the bigger priorities, then you need to rethink your life.
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The last part of this article amazed me,it made me realized that money can’t buy anything happiness in the family,means it doesn’t need to work hard and have extra extra money because the result of that your family is boring like no family bonding it would be nice even just sunday have a picnic…that’s only a suggestion…
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Money vs Family? I’d pick Family over money any time!
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Thanks for these wonderful tips.It helps me realized that no matter how busy we are,we should have a time for ourselves and our family.
Its tough when all things seems to be your priorities.
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Shanen,
Like you said, we should have time for family and loved ones. You should always have an open spot for family.
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it is really tough when all things seem so be your priorities….when you think of your 1st priority that’s even tougher!!..I hope I can master the art of not rationalizing..
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Milalanis,
You have to schedule your priorities, not the other way around :-)
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this sure is a tough situation… man, i’ve been there. and i really hate when i am torn between my personal commitment and work… it’s really hard to choose between the two but sometimes, i have no choice but to pick one.
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cazer,
Like I said it’s never a matter of choosing. If you are at a point where you have to make a choice, then you might be doing it wrong.
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Marlon,
Great tips!
I find that tracking your time (time logging) is important in order to see how you spend your time.
It is also so much easier to improve your daily schedule in the future, when you know what things to eliminate.
Timo
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Timo,
Yes, time logging would help but not to the point that it adds up another layer in you system. Logging should be done as a way to track averages for future planning of tasks.
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Excellent article. Especially the last point – it is so not about choice, and in fact, making it about choices ends up hurting us in the long run.
Thanks for sharing.
Jade
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Jade,
There are time that you need to sacrifice. That’s where having to choose comes in.
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